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On Turning 28

received_1166160853524326.jpegIt’s quite surreal being 28 right now. Ten years ago, I would have imagined myself to be stable, absolutely sure of what I want in life, doing what I love and ready to settle down. None of which is true today.

Somehow, it seems like I fell short of my own expectations but I won’t wallow myself in self-pity. I know better and I know that each one of us runs in our own time. I may have over-estimated myself when I was younger – believing that I could get my act together in that short span of time but growth is a continuous process. Now that I’m older, I know that things don’t always go as planned. I know that goals should not be set in stone, but should be fluid – adaptable to change.

Come to think of it, I have grown a lot. I have realized that friends should be grounded by quality not quantity. I have learned that family always comes first. I know that the amount of blessings we receive is based on the generosity of our hearts. I can attest that age does not equate to being right. Wisdom comes with the willingness to learn from your mistakes, young or old. Also, I know that there will always be something good in everyone but we also have our own demons to conquer. That is why spiritual growth is vital for everyone. I say all these not based on books or other people, but on first-hand experience; on what is true to me.

I’ll face today with a smile on my face because I know I’ve done what I can with what I was given. And will continue to do so regardless of how old or young I may be.



My Java Experience: Tips for first time travelers to Indonesia (PART 2)

I recently spent a full week in Indonesia and discovered a lot of things about this country that would be helpful for first time travelers. I recently wrote about these tips here. If you haven’t read PART 1 of the series, just follow the link. Today, I’m sharing another set of tips to help you prepare for your next trip to this awesome country that is filled with culture, history, and nature’s wonders!


To the left, to the left.

Stay left on the road when driving.

This country was under the British occupation. That being said, traits like the love for football and driving on the left side and having cars manufactured with steering wheels on the right are the norm. It took some time for me to adjust and every car ride would be such a thrilling experience because my brain would tell me something is wrong with their driving.


Sockets look like this.

Bring an adaptor for your phone charger

Another example of the British influence in the country is their electricity sockets that are common in European countries. However, there are also ports that use the typical ones we use in the Philippines. The wattage is the same, only the port type is different. To play it safe might as well bring an adaptor to avoid the inconvenience of looking for one all over the city.


Train ticket to Yogyakarta from Surabaya – an 8 hour travel.

Traveling from one city to another may be quite taxing and expensive

Just like the Philippines, Indonesia is an archipelago. It has over 18,000 counted islands and shares borders with Timor-Leste, Malaysia and Papua New Guinea. So brush up your basic knowledge of geography and check the distance of the places you want to visit in this country. If your stay is going to be eaten by the travel time to go from one destination to the next, might as well tweak your plan so that you can maximize your stay.


Baguio feels in Mt. Bromo Camp site.

Check the weather conditions in your time of visit.

The weather in Indonesia can be quite varied. It would be best to check the typical whether conditions of the area you are planning to visit so that you can pack the most appropriate attire for the trip. When I went to the camp site near Mt. Bromo, the weather was super cool but when I stayed in Jakarta, it was really hot. When we went to a hot spring resort in Bandung, the weather was really cold to a point that the road was covered in fog. Other factors to consider are the time of day you plan to visit the tourist spots and if these sites are in the highlands or lowlands because they both affect weather conditions.


Screenshot_2017-08-06-18-23-29 is telling me how to get to our hostel in Yogya.

Find the best apps that can help you navigate your way

Two of my favourite apps/websites in this particular trip are Grab and Grab is our staple means of transport going to our hotel from the train station or from the hotel to the bus stop. Since the drivers later find out that we are tourists, they make the extra effort to make sure we arrive to the correct drop off. Also, I used to look for our hostels in Yogyakarta and Bandung. My favourite part of this website is that you have the option to book without having to pay anything so it won’t be a loss if you choose to cancel the booking later. Plus, you can filter your search such as the price of stay, wifi availability, or type of beds to match your specific needs so you won’t have to take too long to look for the perfect place to stay in.

Now that you are all set with these tips, want to work on your specific itinerary? Watch out for my day to day accounts on the adventures I had in Indonesia. Will post them soon!


Learn more about my visit in this Prambanan temple and other sites, soon!

My Java Experience: Tips for first time travelers to Indonesia (PART 1)

It’s been a while since I wrote something here but August has brought a lot of wonderful experiences that I just couldn’t help but share it to the blogosphere. To everyone who’s been asking for itineraries, here is “My Java Experience” series. I hope you can pick an idea or two on how to create your own amazing travel itinerary in the beautiful land of Indonesia.

Is this your first time to visit Indonesia? If so, let us talk about some guidelines that could help you understand the culture of this awesome archipelago!


Selfie at Kawah Putih- which reminds of Taal Lake in the Philippines


Research. Research. Research

There are countless things you can do in this country and it all boils down to answering the basic question, “What do you want to do?” In my case, I decided to go to Indonesia because I wanted to climb Mt. Bromo which is situated in East Java. Since I had time to spare, I went to Central Java and visited the city of Yogyakarta (pronounced as Jogjakarta). This is home to two world-known cultural/religious sites: Prambanan and Borobudur. The first is a Hindu temple and the latter a Buddhist temple. I also further explored the West Java area via city of Bandung and visited tea plantations, bathe at hot spring resorts and took a selfie with a sulphur-filled lake called “Kawah Putih.” (Want to know my itinerary? More to come in this series.


Spicy Nasi Goreng with a lot of Sambal on it.


Meet “Sambal”

Brace yourself for some chilli in every meal. I already researched about the food norm in Indonesia but no amount of research can prepare me from the hotness of Sambal. It’s Indonesian’s basic condiment for almost everything they eat. I mean everything – from Nasi Goreng (Fried rice) to Mi Goreng (Pancit Canton), from Sotto (soup), Baksu (Batchoy-like soup) to a Dunkin Donut Beef Croissant. I literally wasn’t able to finish my first meal of Nasi Goreng because I was crying from all the chilli. Though, it was my fault because I did ask it to be spicy. The good news for you is that you can always say no to it. So when the waiter asks if you want your meal to be spicy, just say no.


Their highest paper bill is 100,000.00 IDR


Prepare to be a millionaire.

When I exchanged peso to rupiah (August 4, 2017) the conversion was PHP1= 247 IDR. So my 10k pesos converted to 2 million rupiah. I stayed a full week in Indonesia with only the first two days as actual planned travel, so obviously I had to look for a money changer shop midweek. It always helps to bring extra cash and make sure to google the nearest Money Changer in your area to avoid the hassle of walking under the sun with your travel bag on a Sunday! Extra tip: They don’t normally have money changers in malls. Banks don’t ensure money conversion, too. So you really have to look for an actual money changer shop for it. The one I found in Bandung is Dollar Asia.


This phrase means “Goodbye and Thank you.”


Learning basic words/phrases will help you go a long way.

Talking to locals in English was quite a challenge to say the least. There were times when a merchant had to get a calculator to show me how much the product cost and a cab driver had to use google translate to let me know what he wanted to say. Compensating with hand gestures won’t help much either so might as well prepare yourself with basic phrases like “Berapa?” which means “How much?” or “Terima Kasih” which means “Thank you.” I bought a local prepaid sim and registered to a data plan. They have fast internet service even in the highlands so it’s so easy to use the wonders of google translate if need be.



Ready for some squats?!


Be ready with an exciting toilet experience.

I thought I could escape it, but alas, I still had to deal with their interesting toilet setup albeit just once. In airports they have certain cubicles with familiar toilet bowls and offer bidets and special bowl cleanser dispensers, in other areas though, such as the toilets in Kawah Putih, you are left with this type of toilet (like squatting in camping trips) and a bucket of water on the side. Bonus tip: Bring your own toilet paper.

Want more tips? Watch out for Part 2! Coming out soon!



Five Things to do when you CAN’T SLEEP

It’s way past your bed time and you find yourself tossing and turning on your bed. Your body is tired and is more than willing to welcome slumber land but your mind wouldn’t allow it. What should you do? Count sheep? Surf the net? Watch random cute videos of pandas and kittens? Nah! Try these five tips instead.

1.Work on a chore.

It pays to be productive if you can’t bring yourself to sleep. Wash the dishes, fold your clothes, shine your shoes, do the laundry. Trust me, you will not run out of chores to do. By the time you finish your work; it may seem forever but in reality it’s just 15 minutes, nonetheless you will be super tired, even your mind would want to rest.

2. Write.

I find myself most creative during this time of the day. So I write whatever comes to mind. If you have a blog, write a blog post (ehem). If you’re a budding author, work on another chapter of your book. If you’re a secret poet, bring that Shakespeare out and write a sonnet or two.

3. Read.

If you are a bookworm, then this tip most probably will be on top of your list. Go and read that last chapter of your favorite novel. But if you are more into magazines then check all the latest trends that fancy your eyes and browse away.

4. Listen to calming music.

This is my personal favorite. I just double tap on my Spotify app and play Spirited Away soundtracks or Yiruma compositions and I’m ready to sail into slumber land. Find the genre that suits your taste and calms your mind. Even if that means listening to punk rock or heavy metal, if it helps sets your mood to sleep, then go for it.

5. Catch up with someone.

If you’re energy is still up, then call a friend or loved one (so long as that person is most likely awake during this hour or else you might be destroying bonds instead of building it). Constant meaningful communication is key to strengthening relationships. However, if everyone else is already asleep, then send them messages that would bring their mood up once they awake. Your name will be the first thing they see on their phones the next day and you’ll have that advantage of brightening their day up with your simple but sweet text.

I hope you find these suggestions helpful. Sweet dreams, everyone!

Thoughts at 3am


Snoopy and friends cheering me on as I write this post. 😂

It’s 3:16 on a cold Monday morning as of this writing. This is one of those out-of-the-blue posts that you do because your mind is wide awake and you can’t sing yourself back to sleep. Your playlist of JB and Ed aren’t helping, and your thoughts can’t help but wander from that delish pasta post on IG to your purpose and meaning of living in this crazy planet we call Earth.

Before I get lost in a trance from cyberspace awesomesauce aka watching random adorable panda videos on youtube, let me share three bits of truth that struck me today (strictly speaking yesterday). This may or may not be of help to you, but I sincerely hope the former will suit you.


1. Life is difficult.

I was reading “The Road Less Traveled” by Scott Peck and the opening sentence of the first chapter of the book says, “life is difficult.” As I was going through it, I was thinking that yes, life is difficult. I know. Everybody knows that. But then the author continues with saying that most do not fully see the truth about life being difficult because people “moan more or less incessantly, noisily or subtly, about the enormity of their problems, their burdens, and their difficulties as if life were generally easy, as if life should be easy.”

Apparently, life is a series of problems. Peck drives to his point by asking “Do we want to moan about them or solve them?”

2. Repetition is key.

I did some major house cleaning yesterday since my bestfriend gave me a spare cabinet for my clothes. I had to rearrange my stuff to put order in my chaotic pad. The result was immaculate! My place looks amazing now more than ever. It even sparked a cleaning frenzy so today I’m working on my door bedazzling project. Already done with the paint job, now preparing for the highlights.

Bottomline is that you should continuously work towards your goal. Your every step may not be equally big, but keep walking. Keep moving. Get something done. Be productive today. Every day. Life won’t be easier but you’re not complaining because you’re busy solving the problem.

3. Just do it.

No, this third and final bit of truth I came upon today isn’t from the marketing spiel of a famous sporty shoes brand. Though, the name of the brand did cross my mind while I was writing this since I’ve been bombarded with commercials repetitively about it since I can’t remember when. Bit number two really is true.

Anyway, I’ve been planning to go back to blogging my heart out since last year when I posted about me being back in the wordpress community. My planning was to no avail of course until today. You see, I’ve learned the art of procrastination quite well. Excuses rise from “My laptop’s busted.” to “I’ll do it later.”; from “What if I say gibberish?” to “I’m not in the mood.”

My laptop still is busted, so I’m typing from my phone! I may be speaking gibberish but I’m able to process my learnings today and share it with others. I am in the mood and I’m actively living my now instead of passively passing through precious time.

As they say, Just Do It.


What are your random thoughts at this hour?



A Piece of August


                   I’m BACK!

It’s two in the afternoon, my body clock jars me awake. I came home around 8:30, dead tired from the day’s work (or shall I say, night’s work since I’m on night shift), and slept almost immediately once I saw my cozy purple bed calling me.

Now five hours later, I can’t get myself back to sleep, but am too lazy to do house chores to kill time so here I am, writing again, for the first time in a long time, reviving what’s left of my one-year dormant blog.

I know it’s been around a year since I stopped my regular posts because I just celebrated my first year anniversary in the company (hurray!), which was exactly the reason why I broke my writing cycle (boo!) adjusting to the new workplace and all (teehee).

In that light, this post is about celebrating milestones in our lives. In the past year, what milestones do you consider celebrating? What recent events in your life are worth being extremely grateful for? Here’s my top eight:

  1. Celebrating my first year in Wells Fargo.
  2. Moving in to my new place.
  3. Having mom and dad come over for summer.
  4. Having regular meet-ups with old friends.
  5. Traveling to Baguio and Vigan with my best friend.
  6. Going out of town with my family.
  7. Having the successful launch of the “book of love” project”
  8. Going mountain climbing four times in 2015 (and counting).

Cheers to celebrating small victories! What’s your victory story?

P.S. As the title suggests, I originally wrote this post a couple of months ago but decided to publish it today because it’s about time I come back! Thus, the caption on the selfie. (haha)

I will be posting separate blogs about each of my eight milestones for the year. Watch out for it!

Love lots,


Five Things My Big Sisters Need to Know


Growing up as the youngest of five sisters, I was always told how lucky I am to be the “bunso” in the family. However, my experiences can provide ample evidence supporting the contrary, but, this post is not about that. This post is actually one that reinforces the fact that, indeed, I am lucky, or rather blessed, to have big sisters in my life.

To my “ates” heads up!

1. I look up to you.

The four of you are my standard of what a woman, a mother, and a person should be. I respect you in everything that you do and am really amazed by how dedicated and loving you are to your families and especially to your kids.

2. I am  so proud of you.

I know we all have our insecurities, or our bad days but please know that I have been, am, and will always be proud of you. No matter how many mistakes, missteps, or silly decisions you may make, you always have my back.

3. I am jealous of you.

Since you all came before me, you all have experienced different versions of mom and I am quite jealous of the fact that you get to experience mommy as the “first-time mom” or the “fashionista mom” and the like.

4. I am grateful of you.

You gave me seven really wonderful nieces and nephews who are basically just my younger siblings (with the way I treat them). Thank you, thank you, thank you for making my life really colorful with my lovely “pamangkins.”

5. I am happy to have you in my life.

I know I can’t choose my sisters, but I’m glad that God entrusted you, four, to me. He is so cool, because He gave me four of the most beautiful, caring, understanding, and supportive sisters in the world! I couldn’t ask for more!

Loving you always,

Sweetheart ❤ aka thepurplebliss

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Here and Now


Have you ever felt powerless? Insufficient? Lacking? At some point in time of our lives, we have those days when these negative feelings cover our minds and hearts. There are days when no matter how hard you try, it seems like what you’re doing is still not enough. No matter how much you give, it still doesn’t suffice.

However, despite all the negative thoughts, don’t forget to put room for a little sunshine. Think, “What I’m doing may not be enough, but I’m doing something.” Say, “I may not be giving much, but I’m giving nonetheless.” Acknowledge the fact, that you are in constant motion. Embrace the reality that you are doing so much better today then you were yesterday. You may still be far from reaching your goals, but you are living every day in a manner that will surely bring you to where you want to be.

So when all hope seems scarce and when you feel like the end is near, remember, here and now is actually just the beginning. Don’t give up! We are all in this together! ❤



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Forming the Habit of Celebrating Small Victories


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Growing up, we are so used to being told what “not” to do and what not to be. Don’t say bad words. Don’t stay out too late. Don’t hang out with that crowd. Don’t get pregnant. Don’t dress inappropriately. Don’t act like a kid. Don’t do this and don’t do that. Once we’re older, it kind of sticks in our system. I believe society as a whole has this deficiency.

People usually try to find fault in others first. Teachers would usually pay more attention on their students’ mistakes. Employers have more regulations focused on punishments instead of rewards for their employees. Advertisers would pick on their target market’s imperfections so they can sell their products that promise perfection. People would spend more time talking about everything that’s wrong in their lives and other people’s lives than what’s good. It seems like most of us are always looking at the negative side of life to such an extreme that we’ve forgotten to relish in the beauty that also exists.

With spiritual direction, I realized the value of celebrating small victories. This means, in every good deed that you do or positive change that you experience, no matter how small, savor it. You don’t have to tell the whole cyberworld about it but you should acknowledge it to yourself or share it to your closest friend. This is an attempt to look more closely in the brighter side of things.

When making goals, instead of I want to lose 20 pounds, make it I want to gain more muscle mass.  When searching for Mr. Right, instead of “I want to meet someone who wouldn’t hurt me,” say I want to meet someone who would love and cherish me.”

Choose more positive adjectives to describe your feelings, too. When someone asks how you are, choose to say, “I’m fine” over “Not Bad.” When giving instructions use more “dos” rather than “don’ts.” your subordinates will appreciate it.

When you fail in something, accept it, learn from it, and try harder next time. It’s still okay to identify the wrong things that you have done in order to learn from them, but don’t drown yourself in self-pity, worry, and self-deprecating thoughts to a point that you forget your value as a person and as son or daughter of God.

Celebrate your small victories. Your future self will thank you for it.


The Secret to Happiness



If you want to be SAD, all you have to do is COMPARE.

She is prettier than me. She is effortlessly sexy but I’m fat. She seems to be going steady with her beau but I’m still single. She’s so popular with the guys  but I seem to repel them. Her bag is from the latest collection but mine is so last year’s. He has a thriving business but I’ve been struggling to keep mine afloat. He bought a new car but I’m still stuck with my old rusty ride. They went on another European tour but I haven’t been to a single one.  They bought another house but I can’t even afford to buy one.  The list goes on and on.

When you keep on looking at what others have and what you don’t have then you’ll really end up sad and pathetic. Also, don’t mistake identifying how fortunate you are than other people as counting your blessings. That is still comparing and you won’t really feel happy doing that. Comparison ends up negatively. Simply stop yourself every time you do it consciously and catch yourself every time you do it subconsciously.

If you want to be HAPPY, don’t compare yourself to others. The guaranteed path to happiness is to COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS.

I am blessed with a loving family. I have food to eat. I have a place to go home to. I have amazing friends who love me for who I am. I have a supportive work environment. I can watch the awesome sunset right outside my office window. I have a complete set of limbs. I can smell the delicious aroma of a home-cooked meal. I can hear the sweet voice of my one-year-old nephew. I can see the light of day. I am alive. The list goes on and on.

Before you go to bed tonight, count your blessings. Do it tomorrow night. Do it every day. You’ll be amazed at how blessed you are and how happier you’ll be.

Be happy for you are blessed. Here’s one for your list tonight-it’s a Friday!

Have a happy weekend!